Heroes

Recently, in my English class, we were discussing the true meaning of a hero. Together, we came up with a flow chart using all the adjectives we want our hero to be described with as a class. Some said that their heroes were big, muscly, strong, egomaniacs, wore capes and were always confident. Who are they kidding?
My definition didn't match some unrealistic cartoon. My heroes, they're..different. They are brave, they always care for the ones they love (and vice versa), and most importantly, they're human. They know they are and aren't afraid to recognize their mistakes. They are strong because the ones who love them depend on their love. They aren't afraid to risk their life for people that are worth the fight. Heroes aren't some glorified figure in a cartoon, they're every day people, the one in a millions.

Best Friends and Love

When you get to a point in a friendship*, the two are going to be tested time and time again to see the strength of their friendship. A lot of times, how you deal with these tests determines how your friendship either progresses or regresses. Some can find a love for each other within this..

What kind of love?

Friend,close to family,significant other? There are a lot of versions of love.

I agree with my friend on the point of when you label two people as in a relationship, their friendship can be compromised in the process, so the two must be willing to take risks in order to find a romantic kind of love or another form of such love.

Can it be possible for best friends to ever be something more?

No matter how hard you try, if your friendship's healthy, the romantic feelings for each other will arise. Does one ever truly fall in love with a friend whom they've held near and dear? Or does their friendship fall apart with the test of love? If so, are you happy? Some believe that you can and other see the differ. I think that friends that fall in love are true because if the two are truly best friends, they know a lot about each other and don't have any secrets between each other. Having no secrets helps in love..

Is there such thing as becoming too familiar with a person...? This can also ruin a friendship or relationship.

*I'm talking about the friendship between a guy and a girl in particular, however it could be same sex

Family

I have a question for every one. Where do you draw the line of tolerance for family? Something simple like too many chores, something unreasonable like fighting every single day, or something so complex like abuse? If you experience a combination of all three, what do you do?

A lot of people have decided to confront their problems, which is a great thing in my personal thoughts. The vast majority of people just run away from family problems. What becomes of those people? I know my father has become a failure in his life because of the neglect from his family. My grandmother is a female Hades because of her mother. Funny thing is, they're the members of my family I enjoy the least.

Family is the basic unit of society. If so many are failing to be families because of divorce, death or intrapersonal problems, what the fuck do we call society nowadays?

Which brings up another problem..
The importance of family, why is it different to every one? What if they weren't taught to be hateful towards people, yet they are? What if they have feasible reasons for viewing their family like the scum of the earth?

Good questions..

Thanks for listening <3

A Little About Me

I just started this blog a couple of days ago, and I jumped right into the depth of blogging..I forgot to mention a bit about me..

Greetings fellow bloggers.Let's start with my screen name. I shall not mention  my real name, maybe later in my blogging experience but I shall explain my screen name. TheHumanProzac has a significant meaning to me. I have managed to save a lot of my friends from simple things such as sadness and more complex things, such as suicide. One of my friends once said that the happiness I can cause to emerge in a person is stronger than any drug she had ever taken for depression. Thus, subjectively, I am The Human Prozac. As far as age, I won't disclaim that either quite yet, but I am told that I possess wisdom well beyond my years. I live in a slushee cup..burr. Just one last thing before I close, the point of my blog posts may not be strongly supported, I'm just trying to express myself. :)

The Importance of Expression

Recently, one of my best friends attempted suicide. He has time and time before, but this time was different. I was almost positive this was the end of him. But, it's amazing what you can do if you take the time to express your true feelings for an individual. Never had I ever been so scared in my life. So, I decided to remain strong, I knew he needed me. As he sent me his last goodbyes, I begged him to wait. I told him everything I had never gotten to say. Amazing what one can realize they miss. Every single text I sent was a description of his importance to me. It's true what they say, you don't know what you have until it's gone, or close to it anyway. He never knew how important he was to me, nor anyone else. Talking about it the next day, he claims that I saved his life. So, please, say what you need to say. Never regret pouring your heart out to anyone who you can't live without. <3

Quitting Facebook

I recently deactivated my account on the popular website Facebook.com because I realized something. Most people claim that Facebook is too much drama. I beg to differ. My reasons for leaving are similar in a way, but very different in others. I realized that Facebook, if used too often or as much as I did, creates more time in your life to compromise the relationships that you possess with friends, significant others and loved ones. It gives you much more time to make mistakes which others can view as inexcusable. I understand that Facebook was designed to keep in touch, but is there such thing as keeping too in touch? Too many hours spent talking to one another, too much time to find the differences. Too much time to see the flaws and eventually grow to dislike one another. We spend too much time absorbed in each other's social lives that we have lost touch on a personal level, wouldn't you agree? It's about time to bring back the feel of socialization the way it was meant to be. Personal, face to face, loving and truly enjoying one another.